champouf posted Cookie For Thoughts. on Saturday, November 20, 2010

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In every relationship, be it long or short, there will always be happiness, sadness, anger, confusion ... and the list goes on. I'm not saying that every relationship should have these, but the lesser tension present, the better :) I admit that I've been through fights with my darling, and some of them are quite immature, random, and nonsensical. But we've always managed to solve them one way or another. Perhaps some of them will last pretty long, some of them are solved within an instant, but Baobei will always make sure that it will solve within one day and not be brought forward to the next. Having a more matured guy like him is reassuring because I know that he will always solve the problems the more matured way (not like me, childish and really spoilt) :P And I'm grateful for that :) So whatever that happens Baobei, I will still love you.
Right, now on with the real post :) The laptop keyboard is being a bitch. Seriously. The 'R' letter is damn hard to press!! And thus, I've to press it REALLY hard for it to appear. BITCH. MYGOSH. Someone please destroy this laptop please!! :(
Anyways, just now at Storm, I saw this article which a youth, in his mid 20s, cross-dressing .. Like omgggg. WTH. Cross-dressing means that he would dress up opposite of his gender. So he's a guy ... and he LOVES (I emphasize on the love part) dressing as a woman. And guess what? His PARENTS FULLY SUPPORT HIM. WTF?! His mother is a famous mangaka in Japan, his father is one of the most famous, well-known voice-actors and he actually has a girlfriend! He would buy girl clothes, wear them, and put on his girlfriend's makeup. Can you believe it?! Omg. I'm surprised his gilfriend hasn't broken up with him yet .. If I were her, I wouldn't be able to stand such a horrible thing :( HE SIMPLY LOVES DRESSING UP AS A GIRL. Omg. Look, I know I support Gay Marriages, because you are free to love who you want to love. But perhaps cross-dressing is taking it too far out. It's like you depise your gender and wishes to go against all odds just to prove that you prefer being the opposite gender. It just goes against all moral codes of society. It really is a sad case for someone to cross-dress and ADORE it, making it a daily habit. It's really quite sick if you were to ask me. And another issue is that why doesn't his parents object to this? I think his parents, coming from the entertainment industry and seen many such cases, and perhaps accepted it as a taboo in society, that's why they don't seem to harbour much hatred for it. And yes, being parents, they love their son too much to hate him for cross-dressing and thus feel the need to support him in all causes.
Sighs* Really depressing. Maybe it was due to the way he was brought up upon, that's why he has such unusual hobbies/likes. If my son were to be like this, I would definitely consult him first and try to change him. It's not that I hate my kid if he were to do such unusual things, it's just that being a mother, it is hard for her to accept the fact that her son will go through bullies and mocking just because he doesn't conform to society's expectations. Would you rather take the rod and punish your son, or would you rather have society do the punishing for you? Think about it. The world is a harsh place and condones no mercy. If it were me, I rather punish my son instead. At least, he still knows that I love him and that I'm doing this for his own good, rather than getting condemned by the world.
Well that's all I'm posting for today, because the keyboard is seriously pissing me off right now. Hahaha :P Toodles.
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